" Emotional Intelligence begins to develop in the earliest years,
All the small exchanges children have with their parents, teachers
and with each other carry emotional messages"
If we observe the world and people around us, we see many people are disturbed, unsatisfied and unhappy in life. They go on searching happiness in the world and often we too even think that we can be happy if we have something in life. The point of this article is to focus this unhappy state of human behavior. There is no concern about qualifications, perhaps we have seen even highly qualified individuals unhappy. Even rich people unhappy and even stressed many a times. And today really the time has come to teach the emotional intelligence concepts in schools and colleges as well. As even though people achieve material comforts still they are unable to manage their own self emotions as a consequence the rest of the achievements in life go in vain.
Formal definition of Emotional Intelligence as per Wikipedia is the ability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern different between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, manage or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one goals.
Well after going through the definition, we can conclude that this all factors are the skills to live happy life. What to do when, how to control the emotions, how to act and in short monitor your own self is what we mean by emotional intelligence. It is an element which can control the rest of our dimensions in life. It is a secret for relationships as well we can get a hold of ourselves when things are going in unexpected manner.
How to monitor self-emotions and be good in emotional intelligence factor? The answer is to be consistent in observing self and talking with self. Self-talk in controlled manner as we are guiding other individual is the key to gain this intelligence factor. As the quotes goes begin in early years that is in schools if we start developing emotional IQ the concerned mentor firstly should know the way a student reacts accordingly with consistent practice they can mold the thinking pattern and emotional intelligence of a particular kid.
If such a skill is developed we can hope to see the world a better place soon. Kids being happy growing as individuals, happy citizens and managing their own stress and relationships. Apart from all the inventions and materialistic progress such kind of self-progress and happy mindset is the need of the world and soul.